yes and there is a fantastic lunch bar there food and drinks are top notch

No, I do not believe it is pet friendly

It’s not really safe (because of cars) to walk on the winding roads near the hotel, but anything at Red Hook would otherwise be an easy walk for you. Secret Harbor is isolated, secluded, all of that. Rent a car if you like, but the hotel can get you a taxi in just a few minutes, and the drivers are all full of island stories if you are interested in talking with them, plus they are used to driving on the left!

When are you going?? I'd much rather go to Secret Harbour than Magen's Bay and did.

I was there last Dec, it was great everybody was snorkeling great place to dive very nice reef.

I'm not sure order matters necessarily due to relatively close proximity and easily accessible cabs/buses. I would recommend hitting Magen's bay earlier before the crowd as it is a little further away but great to see/snorkel. I would also recommend Sapphire if you'd like to have some lunch or a drink and have a busier atmosphere. I love Secret harbor and it would be a great place to wrap up. Thankfully it's peaceful, has a shower, and there's a restaurant called sunset grille right in the entrance so you could grab a drink or bite as you head back to the ship. I made these recs on the assumption that if you're coming off a boat you may not have a lot of "supplies" and might want some shade and or refreshments throughout the day. If this is irrelevant for you, the natural beaches are all wonderful and offer some amentities as well. Have fun!

Restrooms right beside the Sunset Grille restaurant and bar. Foot wash walking up to the restaurant. Go have fun

I had great luck with airbnb. Now, more hotels are getting up and going too.