Dear Sir, I heard about your rudeness at the tills to our female staff and quite frankly it is uncalled for and unnecessary, I do appreciate your wife apologizing for your behavior, however you caused a lot of upset not only to our staff but to other members of the public within earshot. The Arboretum is quite rightly not a play park it is a Botanical collection and therefore we do not allow ball games and frisbee's in their. However we do have large grassed area's near the carpark where you can let off steam if you need too and we do supply a large number of picnic tables that the public can use free of charge. yes some of the picnic tables are near the carpark but most visitors appreciate this as they do not have to lug their picnic hampers far ! there are also picnic tables behind the coach park on a large grassed area under trees and below the walled garden that are away from the carparks, perhaps if you hadn't been so rude and given our staff chance they could have explained this too you. I presume from this review that you will not be visiting us again which is a shame because we get hundreds of young families visiting who thoroughly enjoy the arboretum.