yes you can

It does have its own car park We went between 9:30-10am and managed fine. Up to 6 hours parking was £13

Yes

Apologies for delayed response. No. No pedals here. Paddle boards and stuff in Poole harbour though.

Beer in cans is permitted

Yes, dogs are allowed

There is a specific doggie beach to the right

Hi Grace, thank you for your questions. Unfortunately the car park is not free to national trust members and is chargeable by the hour. For more information on the charges please visit our website. You are able to hire deckchairs(£3.50), sunbeds(£7), parasols(£6) and windbreaks(£6) from the beach which can be hired between 9am-5pm everyday. The car park does get filled up quickly especially on a lovely day but you shouldn't have a problem parking if you are here by 9.30am. I hope this has helped answer your questions.

You might get away with it. I’ve never seen anyone in authority down there apart from the odd lifeguard